Life goes on, for some people it’s a pretty good thing and
for others, it goes the other way round as we all live in a different level,
different style, and different thoughts with different people. Some are
fortunate to live lavishly, some moderately, some contently, some eagerly, some
jealously etc. From the insights of our lives, we do realize some people’s life
is more artisanal than others and the chain continuous this way. The world is
designed in a relational setting like the opera theatre, we have the stage
performers (the doers) and the audience (the watchers/beneficiaries) who cheers
for the performers as they got entertained which develops a relational pleasure
and happiness. The genesis of such happiness is the result of a cheerful relationship
developed between the performers and the audience else it goes the other way
round.
The creator has given every person different gifts,
different talents, according to our own ability. Everyone doesn’t get the same,
but what it’s given to you is what you need to fulfill your destiny. Whether
you are that person that can defeat a thousand or you are another and you can
defeat ten thousand, the right attitude is you are going to take what’s given
by the creature and make the most of it. Don’t compete, don’t compare, just run
your race. If someone passes you by, don’t be intimidated, be inspired.
I have learned when you are who you are, you can be quite
and be powerful, you can be small and be powerful, and you can be behind the
scenes and be powerful. The whole key is to be you, because when you are you,
you activate your calling. There is a favor that is unique to your life. You
are not destined to be somebody else, as long as you are trying to be like
them, you will be frustrated. The anointing in your life is to be who you are
design to be. Be confident in what you have, you have the right looks, the
right talent, and the right personality. It may not be what somebody else has,
but you are not running their race. It is about developing an authentic
leadership. If you are who you are, you are authentic but one cannot be
authentic if imitates someone else, as Hemingway said
“you can get away from yourself by moving from one place to another”
yes we learn from others, we have
to learn from people but we can’t be somebody else. By being authentic only
then we can be an inspiration to others. And it is the genesis of knowing
yourself.
Self awareness is the foundation of growth and success. You
need to understand how to become self aware by asking yourself the question
“who am I? And what did I want? Becoming self aware is about the process of
understanding ourselves, knowing ourselves; meaning being able to access
realistically several dimensions of ourselves. It is about knowing what your
strengths are, things you can do well, knowing your weakness and your present
limitations. It is about knowing what you want and what you don’t as well. Don’t
get distracted trying to keep up with someone you was never supposed to keep on
with. When you understand you are fully loaded for the race that’s been design
for you, instead of competing with people, you will celebrate them. The right
attitude is, they may have something you don’t but that’s okay you are not
running their race you are equipped for your destiny. What of the advance, what
of the circumstances, what of the people that would shake you. Why to pick
somewhere in life that might be a liability to you. What fear, what believes
that you are holding onto that is no longer allowing your life to work?
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Motivational
Well said
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