One Mistake

A cost of certain value at a prime constituent of time is generally noticed as a result of mis achievements yielding from past misguided events. A central organ controlling the nervous system is the brain responsible for consciousness and decision making on which commitment you rather take or not. A constant feeling of disappointment is a natural valued function coming as a product over the occurrence of the misguided event aligned with a self-explanatory fact that “our brain hates the idea of losing something valuable to us.”

Upon advancing ages, life throws curves at you, you think it’s moving one way suddenly you realize it’s heading the oposite direction, it’s difficult to know what you want within few years, when that turn up comes flying at you, you are not sure whether you should try hitting it or step out the way. That’s how the young brain is reckless and takes things way too far and often leaves you breathless with an open scar. But a certain way our brain is synched with our minds which gets it trained to distinguish between different aftermaths of actions whereby consider which notion of consequence it rather face, is the key factor of avoiding that one mistake.

When i was young, every teacher we had in school would gist us about how they always managed to scaled top in their class, i use to wonder, when they were young they would get an “A” and get this good feelings about all things they could be and they never became any of them. The system that grant favoritism to individuals with regards to a certain merit seems not to be functioning anymore since there are friends and relatives to give chance for disregard to their merit. A factor that delays people from taking a peak at their career by staying at a lower position of employment is that one mistake they make of a total reliance on hard work they forged into papers works in pursue of the freedom papers. The world we live in is relative, depending on what you get used to, what you call success some people call it failure. But the amazing part of tragic experience is when you smile and say; things could have been worse.

Self-involvement is the quality of being wrapped up in oneself or one’s thoughts planning for your own professional development. Moments of self-reflections are of paramount importance in filling in a different thing that you strived for and you focused on, something that gave you full guarantee of success, perhaps it was sport, perhaps it was academics or getting a particular job or an unhealthy lifestyle but we are advancing into new life. Now think, instead of academics taking your focus off your important relationships, it was your career you choose instead of your spouse, instead of sports it was money you pursue at the detriment of your children, instead the unhealthy lifestyle and striving to be famous at the expense of time with your friends because now you are too self-involved, lesson learned. Making a mistake of striving for something that is in the light of eternity is not important, nothing is more important than your relationships, not your goal not your successes because relationships are where we get to influence, impact and change people’s life, your life cannot be meaningful without them.

We normally like talking about things but not really occupying our brain spaces, that way we ought to forget the notions that might follow, because we always take the choice of staying within our comfort zones not really stretching out to fore see a mishap we might be approaching. That one attitude that conquer our mind is that shots we always give at mistakes. Everyone trying to figure out what they would be in very few years confronts one deniable fact, just as a great writer once said “perhaps the earth was made round so we would not see far down the road.” We set out journeys full of hopes and expectations, but when we arrive, the destination never ends up looking exactly the way we hoped it would. A part of the quest we take in life is the experience of stumbling upon misguided actions and regrets but always remember each strive, each perpetuation is a trophy engrave with the word you are still alive, act like it and count your blessings.