Incrimination to destiny in faith reliance for justice

Sometimes life is complicated, matters happens and we have no idea why they do occur to us mostly, are we destined to encounter such? , did they just anticipate out paths or did we lead ourselves to that affair? These questions have conflicting answers and remained unanswered; it goes “yes” from a source and “no” from a third party. The truth is, I do believe in destiny but our lives are the result of choices we make, we are only destined as default to make choices, which a better use of mind is needed as it is important to our lives.

I grew up in a society where people have strong believes in faith which imposes the ideology of faith reliance in their lives. They don’t take responsibility for their own lives which would be better off if they do rather, they blame destiny for all. Something I believed is; as long as you are alive, you never reached your own destiny yet, because death is the only destiny known to humans. The world is a diverge living space full of opportunities, trials and failures, these opportunities leads us to destiny but, if we fail to focus, we have chance for trial, because trial came into existence to overcome failure.

We all have dreams and goals for which we invest our money, time and efforts so as to meet; the type of profession you want to do, a house you want to build, car you want to buy, type of family you want to make etc. All these happens because we do see the sign of destiny in matters we do, mostly things we like or more fortunate to and we believe we would be that particular person or achieve that particular thing, but here is the thing, there are moments in life where your believes are challenged, that is when you receive your true calling by destiny.

Taking responsibility for your own life comes in form of taking responsibility for your actions, believing that finding yourself in any situation in life is as a result of choices you made which we always have second choices for trials when not comfortable. There are toxic negative people out there that do take advantage of these sort of faithful people where by swindling them fraudulently and expect no justice, because all they do is faith reliance for justice. It is good to believe in faith for justice but, standing for your self is like standing for your right and making justice for yourself where by not blaming destiny and faith for things that happen to you.