Failing doesn’t make a Failure



Times comes in life when we fail, feel the embarrassments, the shame and test the bitterness of failure, but believing we can do better makes the difference. We are all different characters playing a single game; our labels define who we are.  It isn’t good to admit failure, but bad to make failure our labels. Calling ourselves failures means we have no chance of making success, which is wrong. Something to be noted is; “every failing is a step closer to success” because mistakes are learned and better solutions emerge.


There is a difference between movement and progress, one can be moving but not going anywhere (not progressing). When we learn errors from our mistakes and make better approach, we say we are progressing. Making enough mistakes in life time experiments or activities makes one fail but naming yourself a failure makes you the mistake. The famous quote; “no one is perfect” made it clear that our mistakes make us humans, if you have never make a mistake then you have never tried something new. A lot of people in the past made great achievements and left memories in spite of not making failure their labels as they have gone through trials and failures but learning from their mistakes and making progress made them see the bigger picture in life.


No human is destined to fail in life, our future lies on our hands and it is built based on the foundation we laid. It is normal to make mistakes but absurd to ignore mistakes, because our mistakes are our responsibilities as well as our failures. Time is an important factor in mistake correction, attempting to rectify a mistake lately develops another mistake, we are ought to rectify our mistakes as early as possible. Between the ages of 15–30 humans makes enough mistakes in their lives but didn’t seems weird because, they learn a lot at those ages and whereas learning goes, mistakes come along, but they can’t afford any more mistakes at their late ages because its they start mentoring.


Making a second taught in decision making reduces the chance of making mistakes, sometimes not all our decisions are the best, rethinking before doing makes the difference. Teenagers brain is like a high speed car with no brakes, it make decisions so fast and engage in without concern, like; saying hatred words without thinking what it may result into, missing exams, making bad companies, jumping into crazy conclusions etc, and teenage time is the most important time in the human life, because the kind of person and company you would make depend on what you were at your teenage time. So giving a second taught and fixing mistakes on time really have impact in teenager’s future.


Preventing mistakes from occurring is good and making mistakes is not bad either, making mistakes and failing shows that we are trying and the more we fail, the more we try, the more we fail better the more we try harder and the more successful we become.


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